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What are the first signs of perimenopause?

Perimenopause may begin with hot flashes or night sweats, but it can also show up as sleep disruption, brain fog, mood changes, joint pain, vaginal dryness, painful sex, urinary changes, or a change in sex drive.

Your periods may change, but they do not have to change first. Dr. Ty looks at the full pattern.

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Recognition and diagnosis

The signs women notice first.

Question 1

What age does perimenopause start?

The average age of menopause in the United States is 51 to 52, and perimenopause typically begins four to eight years earlier.

Dr. Ty also sees women in their mid-to-late 30s with symptoms. She clearly separates that observation from the average shown in the data.

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The average age of menopause in the U.S. is 51 to 52, perimenopause typically four to eight years earlier than that. I will say anecdotally, I'm seeing women much earlier showing up in my clinic in their mid to late 30s. I would say that's pretty average for my patient population. Again, that's anecdotal. So data shows that it's still probably mid 40s is the average. But I would say I'm seeing quite a few patients in the mid to late 30s who were coming in with perimenopausal symptoms, and earlier than that as well.

Question 2

Can I have perimenopause if my periods are still regular?

Yes. Perimenopause can be present while periods are still coming normally.

Dr. Ty explains that perimenopause is primarily a clinical diagnosis. Period changes can occur, but period status alone does not decide the diagnosis.

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And perimenopause, it's a little bit, quote unquote, trickier to diagnose because it is primarily a clinical diagnosis. And I think this is one of the most important kind of shifts in recent data, evidence, studies, research shows us that perimenopause is a diagnosis that a clinician can make regardless of lab work and regardless of period status.

So we do often see that those periods are getting irregular or they're changing in the duration or flow and those sorts of things, but it's not always the case. Perimenopause can come when your periods are coming just like normal, but you're having a kind of wide variety of symptoms that we would associate with perimenopause. And those symptoms are primarily driven by wide hormone fluctuations.

Question 3

Can my hormone labs be normal and I still be in perimenopause?

Yes. One normal hormone result may not tell the whole story because hormone levels can fluctuate sharply during perimenopause.

In this excerpt, Dr. Ty is discussing routine FSH, LH, and estradiol testing in women over 45 who have perimenopausal symptoms.

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And then several other major societies clearly state that for women over 45 presenting with perimenopausal symptoms, which are some of the ones we went over, those routine hormone tests that we all kind of had defaulted to in the past—be that FSH, LH, estradiol—those are not recommended.

And certainly we can do them if a patient wants. You have every right to ask for whatever lab you want to. But the fact is, they just don't provide any diagnostic credibility or criteria for us. And a big reason for that is that our levels of those fluctuate like roller coasters during the day, but also during perimenopause in general. So you could have normal levels one day and completely off-range the next. You could have high, low, just depending on the day, and they're impossible to track.

Question 4

What does perimenopause brain fog feel like?

It can feel like losing words, walking into a room and forgetting why, or no longer performing at the level that used to feel normal.

Dr. Ty discusses brain fog alongside insomnia, difficulty staying asleep, anxiety, and mood changes.

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So you have the neurocognitive symptoms, so brain fog, very common, not performing the same way at work as they are typically used to. Things like forgetting words, word-finding difficulties, going into a room, forgetting why you were there, just general brain fog. Insomnia, huge one—difficulty with sleep, not being able to fall asleep, stay asleep, or have good quality of sleep. Anxiety and mood changes is another one.

Question 5

Are hot flashes more than just feeling hot?

Yes. Dr. Ty describes hot flashes as a whole-body event that can include heat, sweating, flushing, and a feeling that resembles panic.

She describes night sweats as drenching, soaking sweats that happen during sleep, regardless of temperature.

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Hot flashes and night sweats. Night sweats are drenching, soaking sweats that occur at night or when you sleep and kind of regardless of temperature, although the heat doesn't make it any better.

And hot flashes are a systemic, overwhelming hot flash. So you certainly get hot, you certainly sweat, you get red, you know, your face flushes, but hot flashes are so much more than that. They can sometimes come as panic. They can sometimes, sorry, feel like panic attacks almost. Your whole body is engaged—your heart, your blood pressure, your vasculature. So it's all kind of in overdrive. So hot flashes are more than just feeling hot, and they are extremely disruptive.

Question 6

Are vaginal dryness, painful sex, or urinary changes part of menopause care?

Yes. Dr. Ty includes vaginal dryness, painful sex, urinary urgency, hesitancy, frequency, and recurrent UTIs in the menopause picture.

She explains these as possible symptoms of the genitourinary syndrome of menopause, or GSM.

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The GSM is another really common set of symptoms. It's the genitourinary syndrome of menopause. So certainly vaginal dryness, painful sex comes with that, urinary symptoms. So urinary urgency, hesitancy, frequency, recurrent UTIs—those are all potentially caused by that lack of estrogen in the vaginal environment.

Question 7

Can perimenopause be connected with joint pain or frozen shoulder?

Dr. Ty includes diffuse joint pain, arthritis-type pain, frozen shoulder, and changes in tendons and ligaments in her menopause teaching.

This is one of the less obvious symptom patterns she wants women to recognize as part of the larger conversation.

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And then, excuse me, we also have the musculoskeletal and metabolic changes. Achy joint pain. It can be diffuse, so you've got all of a sudden multiple joints that you've never had issues with. You're having, like, arthritis-type pain. Frozen shoulder is a pretty common one. Tendons, ligaments, things like that not working the way they used to.

Treatment forms

Why the form matters.

These excerpts preserve Dr. Ty's clinical teaching about estradiol and testosterone, with complete transcripts beneath each video.

Question 8

What does estradiol do, and how does Dr. Ty compare a patch, gel, and pill?

Dr. Ty describes estradiol as the part of the standard protocol that does most of the work for many menopause symptoms.

She explains the transdermal and oral forms, how liver metabolism changes the discussion, and why blood-clot risk affects the route she chooses.

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The standard HRT protocol is still going to be estradiol and progesterone. Estradiol is going to come—that's our one that's going to be doing most of the work. Estradiol is going to be tackling pretty much most of those symptoms we talked about.

So certainly the hot flashes and the night sweats, those vasomotor symptoms, estradiol is going to be taking those, and that's really the one that we're going to target with that. Brain fog, mood changes, bone pain, joint pain, muscle pain—all of the things that we talked about earlier—that's where estradiol is really going to come into play.

There are different forms of estradiol. It comes as a transdermal form, whether that's in a pill—or, sorry—whether that's in a patch or a gel. The transdermal form bypasses metabolism through the liver. What that means is a decreased risk of blood clots.

So if you are a patient who's been on HRT and you are over the age of 65, we switch you over to a transdermal version of estradiol if you are not already on one. That decreases your risk of blood clots. If you have a history of blood clots in the past, if you have a propensity to blood clots because of a genetic disorder, if you use tobacco, these are all reasons that we would immediately go to the transdermal version or formulation of estradiol, because again, we want to decrease your risk of blood clots. Those things have already built-in increased risk of blood clots. So we want to go ahead and give you the safest version. There's the oral formulation, which for most patients is completely fine and an excellent option.

Question 9

Why does Dr. Ty recommend topical testosterone instead of pellets?

Dr. Ty recommends topical testosterone and explains that it is better studied, has longer-term data, and is more consistent.

She contrasts that consistency with the highs, lows, and time delay she sees with injections and pellets.

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The main way that we prescribe topical testosterone is through compound pharmacies that make it and make it geared towards women. There are other forms of testosterone. So there are injections and there are pellets.

Data, again, leans towards topical. It recommends topical testosterone. It's better studied. It's got longer-term data. It's also more consistent. Issues with injections and pellets is we tend to see these super highs and then these super lows. So we get testosterone levels that are way above what we would recommend for women, and then they drop.

And when they drop, the issue is with those things is that you've got a time delay. So if you've got a pellet and you have to wait until that pellet runs out before you put in another one, a huge part of that is going to be a big dip. So I recommend the topical. Leading societies and recent data recommend the topical as well.

Question 10

How does Dr. Ty explain topical testosterone application?

Dr. Ty says surface area and using symmetrical application locations matter for consistent absorption.

This excerpt preserves her application teaching about surface area and using symmetrical locations for consistent absorption.

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Oh, another thing I wanted to mention about the testosterone. So topical testosterone is very important how you apply it. Most things that we have—well, many things that we put on or inject into our body—are absorbed subcutaneously or through fat or through muscle or those sorts of things. Testosterone is not absorbed that way.

It is absorbed, actually, in the way that it is formulated, is it's absorbed in the top layer of your skin. So surface area is actually pretty important, and also the same location is important, which is to say you always need to keep things symmetrical.

So if you're applying testosterone to your upper buttocks or outer hip, which is a great place to put it because you don't rub up against things and it tends to have a little bit more surface area, and you use your right buttocks, make sure you use your left buttocks. Don't use your right buttock and then behind the knee. So you want to keep the area symmetrical because, again, we're keeping the same kind of skin, and that's how testosterone will be absorbed consistently throughout the day.

Read at your pace

Six complete articles from the masterclass.

Each article groups related questions into one useful explanation drawn from Dr. Ty's recorded menopause masterclass.

Diagnosis

Can You Be in Perimenopause With Regular Periods or Normal Labs?

Dr. Zuleikha Tyebjee explains why perimenopause is a clinical diagnosis, why periods may still be regular, and why one normal hormone result may not tell the whole story.

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Symptoms

What Hot Flashes, Brain Fog, and Sleep Disruption Can Feel Like

Dr. Zuleikha Tyebjee describes hot flashes, night sweats, brain fog, insomnia, anxiety, mood changes, and the wider symptom pattern of perimenopause.

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Sexual and urinary health

Vaginal Dryness, Painful Sex, and Urinary Changes During Menopause

Dr. Zuleikha Tyebjee explains the genitourinary syndrome of menopause, including vaginal dryness, painful sex, urinary changes, recurrent UTIs, and changes in sexual desire.

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Muscles and joints

Can Perimenopause Be Connected With Joint Pain or Frozen Shoulder?

Dr. Zuleikha Tyebjee discusses diffuse joint pain, frozen shoulder, tendon and ligament changes, muscle health, bone health, and strength training during menopause.

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Treatment forms

Estradiol Patch, Gel, or Pill: How Dr. Ty Explains the Forms

Dr. Zuleikha Tyebjee explains what estradiol targets, how transdermal estradiol differs from oral estradiol, and why progesterone is paired with estradiol when a patient has a uterus.

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Treatment forms

Topical Testosterone Versus Pellets: How Dr. Ty Explains the Difference

Dr. Zuleikha Tyebjee explains testosterone for women, why she recommends topical treatment over injections or pellets, how she monitors it, and why application technique matters.

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